Thanksgiving can be stressful for vegans and nonvegans alike when the the question of what to eat comes up. For many people in the U.S., Thanksgiving has been tied, for generations, to the preparation and consumption of a turkey. Becoming vegan, particularly for ethical reasons, challenges this tradition and can result in a range of discomfort. Some family members may feel that you are rejecting deeply rooted family traditions (and by proxy, the family itself) by refusing to eat the turkey. Other family members may be more generally uncomfortable with your choice not to eat meat more generally. Some families may be accommodating to those eating a plant-based diet and make a mix of vegan and nonvegan dishes. Some families may agree to try a fully vegan Thanksgiving. And some families may not accommodate a vegan diet whatsoever.
I have found it to be, in some ways, exhausting and difficult to negotiate the Thanksgiving holiday. Two years ago, we hosted a vegan Thanksgiving at our house for 20 family and friends. When we invited people, we explicitly said that it would be a vegan meal–both so they would know to not expect a turkey, and so that the dishes they brought would be vegan. Eric’s cousin is a long-time vegan, so the notion of cooking vegan was not completely foreign to anyone in the group. Overall, it was a delicious meal and I think everyone left feeling satisfied. As it tends to be when hosting Thanksgiving yourself, it’s A LOT of work. In many ways, though, despite the enormous amount of work of hosting that many people for a meal, that setting was much easier to negotiate than the situation where you’re going to someone else’s house for dinner.
Last year, we ended up skipping Thanksgiving altogether. We were scheduled to go to Eric’s family’s house for Thanksgiving, but at the last minute we decided not to go. This decision was based on the fact that we did not want to take part in a meal that was centered around the dead bird in the middle of the table. Quite frankly, Thanksgiving is about celebrating what you’re thankful for and I am, honestly, not thankful at all for the slaughter of more than 45 million intelligent, social creatures for Thanksgiving tables alone. Nor do I have the energy for or the capacity to ignore what that dead turkey represents. And so, we ended up staying home, adopting a turkey from Farm Sanctuary, and having pasta and garlic bread and pie, which was, honestly, quite a low-stress and relaxing way to have Thanksgiving.
This year, we are going over to a friend’s house for dinner. She has been vegan since she was 13 and, in many ways, is my moral compass when it comes to animal ethics. If I am questioning the ethics of any animal-related scenario, Eric always reminds me– “WWKD?–What Would Karen Do?” She has a five-year old son, who I completely adore and we so rarely get to spend time all together. It will be a nice way to celebrate the day, I think.
Basically, I think it’s important to decide what you are comfortable with and what you’re not. For some, being at a Thanksgiving where the centerpiece of the meal is turkey does not bother them so long as there are some vegan options to eat. For others, the symbolism of celebrating the violence of humans’ relationship with farmed animals is too much.
THE FOOD
Over the past couple of weeks, I have been preparing lots of dishes that would be great vegan options for Thanksgiving dinner, whether you’re having a fully vegan meal, bringing some vegan dishes to a nonvegan meal, or whether you’re simply interested in making your Thanksgiving meal a bit more healthy by using plant-based ingredients. Below are the recipes I have posted that would be good for a Thanksgiving meal.
A note about main dishes first. I have not gotten around to posting about main dishes, but I’ve had some thoughts about them.
1. Acorn squash, halved and stuffed with a mixture of nuts, dried fruit and savory herbs.
2. Lentil pancakes with savory herbs.
3. A lentil or bean stew served in a whole roasted pumpkin.
4. Tofu, tempeh, or seitan flavored with savory herbs.
5. Any other ideas?
And now for the other dishes… Garlic Mashed Potatoes:
For Karen’s Thanksgiving dinner, we’re responsible for bringing roasted potatoes, stuffing, brussel sprouts and pumpkin pie, as well as some spiced apple cider, I think. What are you planning on making for Thanksgiving dinner? What are your plans? How do you feel about negotiating the holiday?